tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19178340.post3231510454472187747..comments2024-02-19T04:18:28.329-06:00Comments on Boy Crazy: Doesn't it Rain A Lot in March?andriahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07936122859722777328noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19178340.post-3858199188897679292006-12-04T11:37:00.000-06:002006-12-04T11:37:00.000-06:00Just another reason marriage should be outlawed.Just another reason marriage should be outlawed.OneHungManhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02153343488554848976noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19178340.post-71630085462249159542006-12-03T16:46:00.000-06:002006-12-03T16:46:00.000-06:00Oh man! What an awful, stressful situation to be i...Oh man! What an awful, stressful situation to be in. It stinks that they've planned their wedding at such a bad time for you guys with your hubby being the best man. I know it's their wedding, but they should have taken into consideration that it's out-of-state (right?) and their best man's wife is pg and due close to that time! I wish I had some advice for you, but I really don't know what I would do. I know I wouldn't want my hubby to miss the birth of our child though. I'm really sorry this is happening!Michellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02441176684416139172noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19178340.post-61636573505105891872006-12-03T16:31:00.000-06:002006-12-03T16:31:00.000-06:00oh andria, wish you could relieve all stressed dur...oh andria, wish you could relieve all stressed during your pregnancy...I tend to go along with everything everyone else wants just to avoid conflict sometimes, but you have to think of you and the baby and your other little ones too!I mean, it is really not enough time to rearrange life sometimes..how about an over the phone toast and best man?! I wish you all luck in making these decisions...sweet memorieshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02615041991475243925noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19178340.post-78713275147154532122006-12-03T14:48:00.000-06:002006-12-03T14:48:00.000-06:00To clarify: by "chances are too good that somethin...To clarify: by "chances are too good that something will happen" I mean that chances are good you'll go into labor, not that something BAD would happen. Of course, if he goes, and you do go into labor, you can hold that over him for the rest of your lives.<br /><br />That would be fun.Sadiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02637939692422826777noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19178340.post-35381443661811472522006-12-03T14:46:00.000-06:002006-12-03T14:46:00.000-06:00Bless your heart. I understand the husband's desi...Bless your heart. I understand the husband's desire to be there, but I would expect him to stay home too. The chances are too good that something will happen.<br /><br />Heck, if I don't have a job by then, I could come help!Sadiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02637939692422826777noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19178340.post-36278718620896153962006-12-03T14:17:00.000-06:002006-12-03T14:17:00.000-06:00Picking up my jaw over the phone birth story.
If...Picking up my jaw over the phone birth story. <br /><br />If I were in this situation, unless the wedding is close enough where my husband could be home in a reasonable amount of time, than I would totally expect him to stay home.Amiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05583971319806873447noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19178340.post-19731921797948723072006-12-03T14:13:00.000-06:002006-12-03T14:13:00.000-06:00I have to agree. Best friends are great, but the ...I have to agree. Best friends are great, but the birth of your third child only happens once. I'm not trying to scare you, but normally child birth is a safe process, but complications can happen. How would he feel if something happened to you or the baby and he wasn't there?? <br /><br />I know you don't want to be bitchy, but if it were me, I would just have to put my foot down and say, "sorry honey, I love you, and your friend, but it's just a bad time, and you need to be here with me/us". You didn't get pregnant all by yourself, and you shouldn't have to give birth by yourself. <br /><br />((hugs)), I know this isn't an easy situation. Hopefully he comes around and realizes that you need him there. I know it's a "just in case" situation, but this is a BIG deal.....Lorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13463999246485742293noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19178340.post-42556489741301408692006-12-03T13:27:00.000-06:002006-12-03T13:27:00.000-06:00I'm so sorry. This really sucks. You didn't say,...I'm so sorry. This really sucks. You didn't say, but I'm assuming this is an out of town wedding? I don't have any advice for you. Personally I wouldn't plan on attending (even if it werer in town), but the rest is between you and hubby. My husbands best friend got married 2 months after we had our second. We're in Ohio and he got married in Iowa. I didn't go, but hubby was the best man. I gave him my blessing to go without me, but I have to tell you, I was still ticked off and resentful after he left. I was left for 5 days with a 2 1/2 yr old and a new born. Thank you very much. I hope things work out for the best. I can tell you though, if my husband missed the birth of our third child (phone birth not an option), there is nothing he could do to make that up to me. Best friends don't come before children.ChupieandJ'smama (Janeen)https://www.blogger.com/profile/12367131116081742274noreply@blogger.com